Independence

It's been one beautiful year for me! So much has happened, and things have definitely progressed quickly. The time has gone by so fast. I have so much more independence now, I even amaze myself at times. I have grown so much. It may sound like I am gloating, but please allow me to share all that I have accomplished with you. I hope you will understand why I am so proud of myself.

I am so much more in control of things around me - before it felt as if I would stare at something forever and it would never get any closer no matter how badly I wanted the object of my focus. Now? If I see something that I want, I reach out and take it.

A year ago I felt so stationary. I wanted to move from my current surroundings and position, but I just couldn't find the strength or the ability to actually do it. It took a lot of practice, but I am finally going where I want to, and when I want to.

My mind! Oh my mind, it has absorbed so much. This seemingly new reality and life has opened up to me with endless possibilities! I have realized that I am surrounded by unconditional love and surrounded by people who want what is best for me. My family does everything that they can to encourage me to learn and live life curiously! I make my own choices, mistakes, and am learning that to everything in life there is consequence. I feel like I take in information now like my brain is a sponge!

I am learning that if I do not use my words, those around me cannot understand what I want. I am getting better at communicating my needs as an individual. (Clear communication is an important part of relationships I am learning.)

I am happy just being who I am.
I have developed a better idea of my own personal preferences.
I say "Thank you" (most of the time) to those who do things for me when I cannot do them myself.
I play nicely with others and am gracious when they share with me.
I can walk.
I can use a spoon on my own.
I can help pick out my own clothes.
I snuggle with my Mommy to show her that I love and appreciate her.
I decide what books I want to read and learn from each day.

It really is amazing what one can accomplish in a year in regards to personal independence.

The above is a point of view on independence that might be according to my daughter who just turned 1 year old - if she could communicate it. All of the dedication that infants show just in their first year of life is amazing isn't it? Imagine if that same determination and dedication was practiced by adults in achieving their own independence or goals....